ATTENTION, boys: Take our list, check it twice and then cut it out and stuff it in your wallet.

We know what she – grandma/mom/sister/girlfriend/wife/mother-in-law – wants for the holidays. And no, it’s not an autographed head shot of you (unless you’re Brad Pitt and then, in that case, we’ll take one, too) or a vacuum, microwave or a subscription to the fruit-of-the-month club.

Unless you have been given specific instructions, we suggest you shop from our list. Good gifting always separates the men from the boys, so man up.

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