Anette Bening wins best actress in a comedy or musical for “The Kids Are All Right.” She’ll face a tougher battle at the Oscars, which don’t have separate best actress categories and where she’ll be up against Natalie Portman of “Black Swan.” The award was presented by Robert Downey Jr., who noted “the hugely mean-spirited with midly hostile overtones” intros by host Ricky Gervais, before quipping that “I don’t know if an actress can do her best work unless I’ve slept with her.” So far, my picks are three for three.