Actress, comedian, jazz singer and “professional lesbian” Lea DeLaria doesn’t care if you call her “Sir.” “Obviously, it’s a look I’m going for,” she joked in her previous live show, “The Last Butch Standing.” As for her pronoun of choice, the 59-year-old — who plays Big Boo on “Orange Is the New Black,” voices Miss Fritter in “Cars 3” and guest-stars on Season 4 of “Broad City” — prefers “Empress.” Now prepping for upcoming concerts, the Bushwick-based LGBT activist shares with Alexa the items — from suits to screwdrivers — that rock her world.