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When putting together the finishing touches of your home — whether you’re moving to a new town or sprucing up your wedding registry — there’s something about a quality flatware set that makes us excited to sit down for a meal. For me, as a part-time private chef to discerning clients in New York City, flatware can make or break a tablescape and even the dining experience overall.

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We think any of our top picks will please you and your guests this holiday season, and they’re durable enough to last you for years of gathering around the table.

• Best Overall: Mikasa Harmony 65-Piece Polished Mirror Silverware Set
• Best Dishwasher-Safe:Godinger 20-Piece Milano Mirrored Matte Gold Flatware
• Best Stainless Steel:Gorham 65-Piece Stainless Steel Flatware Set
• Best Heavy: J.A. Henckels 45-Piece Flatware Set
• Best Budget: Hiware 48-Piece Silverware Set with Steak Knives

From Oneida and Lenox to Mikasa and even options on Amazon, we’re sure our list is bound to make you extra excited to host your next dinner party. And don’t forget to check out our FAQs below on all things shopping for flatware!

To bundle and save, the Mikasa Harmony 65-Piece Polished Mirror Silverware Set is less than $175 and comes with a whopping 65 pieces to complete your dinner collection — and then some. It’s beloved by Amazon buyers and has a timeless look for any occasion. It’s on the heavier side, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but if you like super light flatware, this isn’t the pick for you. However, as we said, thousands of Amazon customers love it, and we love how durable the pieces are.

What customers are saying: “I love the weight and shine of this silverware. It feels good in the hand and nicely compliments my dinnerware. It can be used with good china, as well as daily place settings. It’s very versatile and a good value. I highlight recommend it.”

Set includes:12 salad forks, 12 dinner forks, 12 dinner knives, 12 dinner spoons, 12 teaspoons, 1 serving spoon, 1 slotted serving spoon, 1 spreader, 1 serving fork, and 1 condiment spoon.

Additional Specs:Set includes 4 dinner forks, 4 dinner spoons, 4 dinner knives, and 4 teaspoons.

How gorgeous is the Godinger 20-piece Milano Mirrored Matte Gold Flatware? For less than $150, this best flatware set is a wonderful value. It’s luxe-looking and includes salad forks, dinner forks, dinner knives, teaspoons, and tablespoons. Plus, its stainless steel core makes it durable enough for everyday use.

Review: “We’ve [placed] these through the dishwasher multiple times and constantly use them. So far, no signs of wear!”

For a larger-than-life assortment of spoons, forks and knives, the Gorham 65-Piece Stainless Steel Flatware Set understood the assignment. It’s no-frills, brushed exterior will never go out of style, either.

Review: “I initially purchased this set in 2013 and purposefully waited for some age prior to reviewing. This has been a very sturdy, high quality set of flatware. It has endured almost daily dishwasher cycles, grandchildren and general abuse. I’ve noticed only very tiny spots of wear on one or two pieces, but otherwise it is still very attractive and looks as good as when first purchased. I must have gotten the set on sale or it has really appreciated in price; admittedly, I paid about $130 less than what is currently advertised, but would readily pay this current price based on the positive experience I’ve had with the style and quality.”

Set includes: 12 dinner knives, 12 dinner forks, 12 salad forks, 12 soup spoons, 12 teaspoons, 1 butter knife, 1 sugar spoon, 1 serving spoon, 1 serving fork.

Additional Specs:Set includes 8 dinner forks, 8 salad forks, 8 dinner knives, 8 dinner spoons, 8 teaspoons.

From the makers of some of the best kitchen knives in the biz, J.A. Henckels has a 45-piece Flatware Set that’s just as good. Specifically, it’s a hybrid of 18% chromium and 10% nickel for optimal corrosion resistance. Coupled with its timeless look, we’re all in.

Review: “This product is the perfect expression of vintage flatware for our modern world. All pieces have a good weight and feel to them, and the hollow-handled knife is impressive in length and weight. I’m very happy with the quality of this purchase and enjoy using them every day. My only regret is that I didn’t buy them years ago.”

Additional Specs:Set includes 8 dinner forks, 8 salad forks, 8 dinner knives, 8 dinner spoons, 8 teaspoons, and 8 steak knives.

Wow, now this is a complete flatware set. Not only is it an Amazon best-seller (with more than 12,000 reviews) but it also contains steak knives which is a huge plus when trying to complete your kitchen setup. The collection is mirror-polished, dishwasher-safe and made of 18/8 stainless steel. And for its affordable price, it doesn’t get much better than that!

Review: “I was pleasantly surprised when I received this product. Talk about a bang for your buck! The quality, price, everything is great! I highly recommend.”

Additional Specs:Set includes 8 dinner knives, 8 dinner forks, 8 salad forks, 8 dinner spoons, 8 teaspoons, 1 serving spoon, 1 pierced serving spoon, 1 butter knife, 1 sugar spoon and 1 serving fork.

Select Oneida’s 45-Piece Satin Sand Dune Flatware Set for a less-than-$100 buy that’s stainless and classic. What’s great about this set is that you can select a 12-piece option ($27.99) or 20-piece option ($39.50) as well, depending on what you’re looking for.

Review: “I’ve been looking for a silverware pattern for quite a few years. I guess I am picky, wanting something simple for everyday, functional for different menus and elegant enough to use for guests. This set met all the criteria. The knife is serrated and lays nicely balanced in the hand. The fork’s prongs are [not] too long. The spoon is an ample size, but not too big. I purchased an additional set of four, so that I had service for 12 [people]. The serving pieces are nice, even though I tend to not use them as often. I especially like the contrast between shiny and brushed. I would recommend this [set] for any household.”

Additional Specs:Set includes 4 dinner forks, 4 salad forks, 4 large spoons, 4 small spoons, and 4 knives.

Meal time should feel special and that’s exactly how it feels whenever we’re eating with the dinnerware and flatware from Fable. We’re really gaga about this brand and can you blame us? Look at how handsome this flatware set is. It’s available in four different finishes, but we like it best in gold matte (shown above). Made of 18/10 stainless steel, the 20-Piece set is durable, luxe and instantly dresses up your table. Are they cheap? Nope! However, the extra cost will save you the disappointment from broken or bent handles a few months down the line. Priceless in our book! (Related:Best dinnerware sets of 2023)

Review: “If you’re looking for a serious quality flatware set, this is for you. Beautiful finish. They feel super solid but aren’t bulky. You won’t be bending these spoons in the ice cream container — trust me.”

Additional Specs: Set includes 4 dinner forks, 4 salad forks, 4 tablespoons , 4 teaspoons, and 4 knives.

We love how different this flatware looks. It’s minimal, modern and filled with personality. It’s also rust-resistant, so it should stay in tiptop shape even if you’re bad about drying your silverware. It comes in several other finishes, including rose gold, so if you’re not into the matte black option (shown above) you still have options. Although we don’t like that there’s no mention of what type of stainless steel the set is made from, its cool aesthetic is enough for us to give it an invite to our next dinner party.

Additional Specs:Set includes 4 dinner forks, 4 salad forks, 4 tablespoons, 4 dessert spoons, and 4 knives.

If you’ve even been at a fancy restaurant and found yourself admiring the silverware, there’s a good chance it’s this. The polished flatware is a demonstration of Italian craftsmanship at its finest. Made of 18/10 stain-resistant stainless steel and incredibly robust, expect this to hold up for years. More importantly, its classic style will continue to serve as your table decor and taste changes. In our opinion, that makes its $199 price tag worth it!

Review: “I bought a four piece set at first — obsoletely loved it! Nice, sturdy, perfect. After a few weeks, I bought another four piece set. Beautiful. Can’t recommend it more than that!”

Addition Specs:Set includes 4 dinner forks, 4 salad forks, 4 dinner spoons, 4 knives, and 4 teaspoons.

Thousands — and we mean thousands! — of Amazon customers love this flatware set. Dishwasher safe and with an ergonomic design, each piece is easy to hold and made with non-toxic, premium stainless steel. We like the set in silver (shown above) but if that’s too plain, check it out in black or rainbow. The cutlery is rust-resistant, so if you leave it in the wash overnight, don’t sweat it.

Review: “I was concerned that because of the price that this would be lightweight or not fit well in my hand. [However,] I completely love this set! Perfectly balanced and looks great too!”

Additional Specs: Set includes 1 dinner knife, 1 dinner fork, 1 salad fork, 1 dinner spoon, 1 teaspoon.

Ah, there’s nothing we love more than a regal-looking gold-trimmed dinnerware set. Lenox’s Vintage Jewel Gold 5-Piece Place Setting is great for everyday use or formal dining alike. Plus, it’s 30% off right now.

Review: “This 5-piece Vintage Jewel Gold set is absolutely gorgeous. I was very impressed with the detail. A very stand out piece that is sure to make an impression with guests. Very well made. Can tell a lot of work went into them.”

For a stunning splurge, there’s no better option than the Towle Silversmiths 90-Piece Hotel Flatware Service. It follows the tradition of England’s finest hotels in the 1900s, too, and its 18/10 stainless steel craftsmanship is second to none.

Review: “I have two sets of this purchased a few years apart. We use this as our family’s everyday flatware. I love it. I only wish they still made the knives with a hollow handle as the earlier set had — much more elegant and balanced. I love the different patterns, [as well as not] running out of teaspoons. Good for casual and fancier settings — no need to pull out the ‘good’ flatware’”.

Set includes: 12 five-piece place settings, 12 extra salad forks, two serving spoons,12 extra teaspoons, 1 serving fork, 1 sugar spoon, 1 pie server, and 1 butter knife.

Additional Specs:Set includes 5 salad forks, 5 dinner forks, 5 dinner knives, 5 soup spoons, and 5 teaspoons.

For a set that’ll match your neutral home decor, consider the Jean Dubost Laguiole 20-Piece Flatware Set. Aside from white, it comes in stainless steel if you desire that tried-and-true classic look. We love its heavy grade, French-made design, too.

Additional Specs:Set includes 12 dinner forks, 12 salad forks, 12 dessert forks, 12 place spoons, 12 teaspoons, 12 dinner knives, 1 cold meat fork, 1 serving spoons, 1 pierced serving spoon, 1 sugar spoon, and 1 butter knife.

For a regal-looking flatware set that will stand the test of time, the 360 Cookware Champlin 65-Piece Set is one to snag ASAP. Its 18/10 stainless steel construction, 100% USA-made design, and fiddle-back shape are only a few reasons why we love it.

Additional Specs:Set of 20 includes 4 salad forks, 4 table forks, 4 table knives, 4 soup spoons, and 4 teaspoons.

Want to add some color to your flatware game? The West Elm Fantasia 5-Piece Set is one of our favorites on this list ,from turning the stainless steel look into a fun, eclectic mood boost. You can choose from a bunch of different colors, and we love its shiny finish as much as the vibrant pop it provides.

Additional Specs:Set includes 4 dinner forks, 4 dinner spoons, 4 salad forks, 4 teaspoons, and 4 dinner knives.

Cambridge Silversmiths is a beloved flatware brand, especially for its modern contoured designs. We love its stunning timeless design, along with its rounded edges, especially. For less than $200, we recommend it.

Review: “We have used this silverware pattern since early 2000s. They hold up well and have a great weight and feel.”

Additional Specs: Set includes 4 salad forks, 4 dinner forks, 4 dinner knives, 4 dinner spoons, and 4 teaspoons.

If you’re on the hunt for the best bamboo flatware, Amazon has it with its Cambridge Silversmiths Natural Bamboo 20-Piece Flatware Set. It’s especially great to match with your home’s coastal or boho aesthetic, and it’s a simple option for less than $50.

Review: “My daughter just got her first big girl, grad school apartment. She wanted to do the boho, natural aesthetic that is everywhere. I bought these utensils on a whim and she loves them. They are cute, seem to make it through the dishwasher just fine and she likes the lightweight feel. I’m old school and like to eat with a heavy utensil, but [I give these] five stars for cuteness.”

Looking to upgrade your flatware but feeling overwhelmed by all the choices? Whether you’re starting fresh or replacing worn-out pieces, choosing the right flatware is about balancing quality, style, and budget. Here’s everything you need to know to make a smart choice.

Stainless steel is your best bet for everyday use, with three main grades:

Standard flatware sets come in three main configurations:

The weight of your flatware affects both durability and dining experience:

Keep your flatware looking great with these tips:

Plan your budget around these general guidelines:

Remember: The sweet spot for good quality stainless steel is between $20-45 per place setting — this gets you better materials and improved craftsmanship without breaking the bank

There’s no shortage of brands with flatware to choose from, which can make finding the perfect set for your needs daunting. If you’re trying to save money, there are dozens of affordable picks (we suggest checking out the sets available on Amazon), but if you need something to last for years, there are several brands to look into.

Lenox is one of them. It makes amazing cutlery that is not only sturdy but dishwasher-friendly, featuring an elegance that many admire. The company was founded in 1889, a time we dare say when people really cared about longevity and craftsmanship. If you want high-quality silverware, check them out.

Another brand to know when shopping for flatware is Mikasa. It uses 18/10 stainless steel to make its forks, knives, and spoons, so you can expect that they won’t break or bend. The designs are sophisticated and classic, which we like. It’s not necessarily as eye-catching as some of the more modern designs that are currently popping up. However, traditional looks tend to surpass trends, and we’re all for investing in pieces that don’t go out of style.

Wondering if that flatware set is worth the investment? Quality flatware should last for years, even decades, so it’s worth knowing how to spot the good stuff. Here’s what to look for when evaluating flatware quality.

A quality set should feel substantial, look elegant, and be free of manufacturing defects. Again, expect to pay $20-45 per place setting for good quality flatware that will last.

When shopping for silverware and flatware, you’ve probably noticed references to the numbers 18/0 and 18/10. These numbers represent the chromium and nickel content in the stainless steel. Nickel plays a large role in flatware’s durability, so it’s an important thing to note if you don’t want bendy spoons or broken knives.

Flatware made of 18/0 stainless steel contains 18% chromium and 0% nickel. Because of this, it’s more susceptible to corrosion and won’t last as long as flatware made of 18/10 stainless steel. The pro of it is that it’s cheaper, so if you’re watching your pennies, don’t disregard it.

If you’re ready to invest (or simply don’t like the idea of your spoons being bent out of shape), go for flatware that’s made of 18/10 stainless steel. It’s sturdier and will last far longer than its counterpart.

Some of our favorite 18/10 flatware sets include:

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