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A Michigan woman stirred controversy online this week by complaining about a young child approaching her service dog at an animal-friendly sporting goods store and trying to pet the dog without her permission.

Now, an NYC canine behavioral expert is sharing four ways to ease an interaction between your dog and a stranger.

“The thing is, we can’t control a child,” Brett Bailey told The Post on Wednesday. “I can’t control anybody in New York City, but I can control my dog.”

Lynne Schmidt sparked the debate about dogs and consent on Saturday when she posted: “Small child runs up to Zoë. I body block and say, ‘Maybe we don’t run up to dogs we don’t know.’ The parent: She’s three … Me: If she isn’t on voice recall, maybe she should be leashed?”  


  A Michigan woman courted controversy this week by complaining about a young child approaching her service dog at an animal-friendly sporting goods store without her permission. X/@AbortionChat A Michigan woman courted controversy this week by complaining about a young child approaching her service dog at an animal-friendly sporting goods store without her permission. X/@AbortionChat

Several social media users weighed in with their thoughts.

“Honestly, I think that’s a great suggestion! I was a leashed kid,” tweeted one.

“Maybe your dog shouldn’t be around children,” wrote one dissenter. “This was very rude of you.”

Schmidt told NBC News that she didn’t actually say the leash line to the parent.

Nevertheless, she was hounded by social media users.


  Now, an NYC canine behavioral expert is sharing four ways to ease an abrupt interaction between your dog and a stranger. Getty Images/iStockphoto Now, an NYC canine behavioral expert is sharing four ways to ease an abrupt interaction between your dog and a stranger. Getty Images/iStockphoto

“When the tweet first gained traction, my sister texted me and was like, ‘Whoa, your tweet has almost been seen by 1 million people,’ and then it kept climbing and we were both like, ‘Huh? Well. This is strange,’” Schmidt said. “Now we’re both just baffled at the violence and vitriol aimed at me and Zoë.”

Schmidt said the child “clearly was not taught how to approach a dog, and that is enough for me to assume that though she was 3 years old, she was a threat to my dog.”

Bailey agrees that parents shouldn’t allow their kids to walk up to unfamiliar dogs.

“People do need to protect their child,” said Bailey, 46. “I wouldn’t let my child run over to a strange human being, and that’s the same for running to a strange dog.”

The New York native and owner of Who’s a Good Boy Industries has offered his expertise to pup owners in and around the city since 2002.

These are his tips for avoiding potentially dangerous dog-stranger interactions.


  Brett Bailey, owner of Who’s a Good Boy Industries, agrees that parents shouldn’t allow their kids to walk up to unfamiliar dogs. TikTok/@whosagoodboy_industries Brett Bailey, owner of Who’s a Good Boy Industries, agrees that parents shouldn’t allow their kids to walk up to unfamiliar dogs. TikTok/@whosagoodboy_industries

1. Positive interrupter

A positive interrupter, such as a treat or clicker, is employed to distract the dog.

“Bring your hand back and say the words, ‘With me,'” Bailey advises.

The phrase will alert your dog to stand behind you to receive a treat and also distract them from a stranger walking up.

“All of a sudden the kid’s coming over with me [but] your dog’s gonna fly right back behind you. Because this is what we rehearsed,” he explained. The trainer added, “I’m not distributing the food right away. I’m slowly sliding it out.”

If your dog is aggressive or fearful, Bailey suggests saying the command well before the child is near the pup.


  A positive interrupter, such as a treat or clicker, is employed to distract the dog. Getty Images/iStockphoto A positive interrupter, such as a treat or clicker, is employed to distract the dog. Getty Images/iStockphoto

2. Petting zones

Just like humans, dogs have a no-no square, and it’s their face.

“No dog likes to be touched in the face,” Bailey noted. “So when someone does approach my dog, I always tell them, ‘Please, not the head, touch my dog on the back,’ and I’ll have the dog look at me.”

If your dog is friendly, tell the stranger to pet his back, Bailey recommends, especially if that’s his favorite spot.

3. Touch target

Another command is “touch the target.”

“Teach your dog to touch a target, and bridge that to the ‘Go say hello’ command,” Bailey said.


  Bailey said that notifying the person where your dog prefers to be touched is a good idea. Getty Images/iStockphoto Bailey said that notifying the person where your dog prefers to be touched is a good idea. Getty Images/iStockphoto

The owner marks the target to the dog, who walks over to the designated spot and returns to the owner. After completing the task, the pup receives a reward.

“When [someone says], ‘Oh, can my child say hello to you?’ I say, ‘Tell your child to put his hand out, and I go, ‘Say hi,’ and my dog will come over to touch the child and come back to me,” Bailey continued.

“If the dog doesn’t want to touch the child, the dog’s not gonna go over there.”

4. Body blocking

If an unfamiliar person approaches your dog, and it could be trouble, Bailey recommends body blocking them and alerting the person that the dog “is not friendly.”

“Consent is not just a thing in the human world, it’s actually something in the dog world,” Bailey said. “It is important for people to understand that we shouldn’t approach dogs without consent.”

Bailey — who specializes in canine fear, reactivity and aggression — believes people should practice these tricks with their dogs before an incident occurs.

“You practice what you want when it’s not happening, so you got it locked down when it does,” he said.

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