Dear Post Man:

I just found out that the guy I’ve been dating for a month has a girlfriend who lives in New York (we’re in LA). She moved there a couple months ago and has no immediate plans to return since she is enrolled in school. Thing is, we REALLY click and he wants to break up with her. Hell, she’s so far away, it barely bothers me. What should I do?

You two need to sit down and watch Justin Timberlake’s ”What Goes Around. .ñ.ñ. Comes Around.” Have we learned nothing from Justin and Scarlett? And just how many video actors have to die needlessly because of scheming, cheating, and duplicitous attitudes like yours and your new boyfriend? I think you both have some serious soul searching to do. If the sex rocks, what the hell! Just remember, what goes around…