According to wedding reception guests at the Park Avenue Club in New Jersey

“Tell her how great she’d look in that wedding dress.” — Andy

“Dance with all the grandmas and the flower girl — every chick in the place will want you.” — Philip

“Crash the bachelor party and give them your best ‘Showgirls’ impression.” — Nicole

“Whisper to them, ‘What happens in a wedding reception banquet hall stays in a wedding reception banquet hall.’ ” — Ravi

“You’ve got an open bar, slow dancing and emotional vulnerability. If you don’t hook up, you’re in trouble.” — Kegan