“When the steamed dumplings arrive, say, ‘Wow, things are already getting steamy between us.’ ” — Kayla

“Ask for oolong tea and say, ‘I’m going to love you for oolong, long time.’ ” — Liz

“Ask, ‘Are those chopsticks in your pocket, or are you happy to see me? ’ Wait, I think that might actually be an insult.” — Tina

“Pick up the teapot and ask, ‘Would you like some tea? Or how about me?’ ” — Liz

“Order a sampler platter, wink and say, ‘I’m up for a little bit of everything tonight.’ ” — Harris