America is hungry. Will somebody feed it already? According to a survey by OpenTable.com (the restaurant reservation people), most of us prefer dinner to jewelry as a Valentine’s Day gift.

It’s true, you know – 78% percent of respondents told the site that they “would rather have a nice meal out with their partner than receive a gift.”

You know what to do, dudes. Luckily, you can pretty much walk into the restaurant of your choosing this year. Except maybe on V-Day. That, you might want a reservation for. Via OpenTable, for instance.