There’s a new addition to the list of words you can no longer say: woman.
Because 0.6 percent of the adult population is transgender, the word must be banished outright for the sake of inclusivity. And it’s not just activist Twitter users or gender studies professors who are taking note. Suddenly, our institutions have scrapped the word “woman” altogether.
The Biden White House is, perhaps, the highest-profile institution to try and do away with womanhood when it used the phrase “birthing people” in its 2022 budget. AFP via Getty ImagesThe words they’re replacing “woman” with leave a lot to be desired. The list of new lingo goes on and on… menstruators, birthing persons, uterus-owners, vulva-havers, or, worst of all, non-males. What’s more dehumanizing than being reduced to a single aspect of your anatomy?
Placards like this one from Planned Parenthood have attempted to distance women from abortion, an issue rooted in female biology. Planned ParenthoodWomanhood is much greater than having a vulva or getting a period. Besides, the terms just don’t hold up to scrutiny—a woman with a hysterectomy is not a “uterus-haver,” a postmenopausal woman is not a “menstruator,” and an infertile woman is not a “birthing person.” We’re not “bodies” with particular parts or functions—our realities, experiences, and humanity deserve greater respect.
This past summer Bette Midler Tweeted that women are “being stripped of our rights over our bodies” in response to the increasing use of terms like “people with vaginas;” she was quickly skewered on social media. Getty ImagesAnd it’s worth asking why this same debate isn’t playing out with the word “man.” Only women are being requested to relinquish their categorical language. I haven’t heard any activists talking about… Bodies with testes? People with prostates? Ejaculators? Penis havers? Non-females?
Of course, those who point out the erasure of women are roundly condemned, like Bette Midler whose recent concerns were dismissed by Irish drag queen Panti Bliss-Cabrera as “anti-trans panic fake nonsense.” And then there’s JK Rowling, whose defense of the female body has almost seen her canceled. But it’s simply not true that standing firm in favor of the word “woman” means you are somehow anti-trans.
Author JK Rowling has taken an even more strident stance against “inclusive” language that contests women’s bodies and has received death threats as a result. Getty ImagesHumans are big-thinking beings, and most people are fully capable of supporting the rights of trans-folks to live as they please and access appropriate medical care — while also rejecting the idea that half the population should become “bodies with vaginas” along the way.
And, while it might seem like all our institutions are moving in lockstep on this issue, not everyone in the medical community is on board. In February, 10 top experts in women’s health from around the world released a paper arguing against erasing the word “woman” from our health lexicon.
A recent New York Times quiz asked readers about their own word choices; an overwhelming majority reject phrases such as “birthing parent” or “chest-feeding.” New York TimesWhile they agreed the language change was intended to be “kind and inclusive,” they worried that “referring to individuals in this reduced, mechanistic way is commonly perceived as ‘othering’ and ‘dehumanizing’… [and] has delivered unintended consequences that have serious implications for women and children.”
And, most important of all, the public isn’t on board, either. A recent New York Times Morning Consult Poll found an overwhelming majority of Americans are rejecting this Orwellian gender newspeak.
While 86% of respondents say they would use the term “pregnant women” and 85% would say “breastfeeding,” only 34% would use the term “birthing parent” and just 10% would use the word “chest feeding.” In fact, “chest feeding” was the least popular term of the 26 that The Times asked about.
This top-down linguistic engineering isn’t flying with the general public. And its instantaneous adoption by progressive institutions should concern us all. Accommodating the 0.6% does not require recategorizing the 50%. Inclusivity doesn’t demand erasure—and womankind should not be expected to stand silent as their bodies and identities are woke-spoke out of existence.
Rikki Schlott is a writer and columnist for The Post.






