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A California socialite who tried to take out a hit on her husband rambled about suicide attempts and quipped about launching an OnlyFans page in a final social media post just months before taking her own life.

Tatyana Remley, 44, died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound outside a bar in San Diego Thursday night, authorities confirmed to the Daily Mail.

The high-flying socialite had posted a video on Instagram in which she discussed posing topless on OnlyFans before swerving into a monologue about life, self-love, and a string of past suicide attempts.

The video, posted in October, came with the hashtags #suicideprevention and #sexonlyfanscumming.


  Tatyana Remley discusses suicide and OnlyFans in an October Instagram video Tatyana Remley/Instagram Tatyana Remley discusses suicide and OnlyFans in an October Instagram video Tatyana Remley/Instagram

  Tatyana Remley poses in a bikini showing a tattoo of the word “Mark” — the name of her ex-husband she tried to have killed. Tatyana Remley/Facebook Tatyana Remley poses in a bikini showing a tattoo of the word “Mark” — the name of her ex-husband she tried to have killed. Tatyana Remley/Facebook

She later died from a “gunshot wound to the head” after she called her estranged husband, Mark Remley, from a bar, complaining about her new partner, Mark told the Mail.

“I have tried to commit suicide many times in my life. Many times,” Tatyana states after talking about self-love and following one’s dreams, “no matter what someone does to you.”


  Tatyana Remley and her ex-husband Mark Remley shared a love of horses during their tumultuous marriage. Facebook/Tatyana Remley Tatyana Remley and her ex-husband Mark Remley shared a love of horses during their tumultuous marriage. Facebook/Tatyana Remley

She shot the video from a boat with a pirate flag waving in the background.

The rambling video came two years after she was charged with trying to take out a hit on her ex, along with charges of carrying a concealed weapon in a vehicle and possessing a firearm in public.

She had met Mark, a tech entrepreneur, around 15 years ago in a ritzy San Diego neighborhood. The two split in 2023 and were in the midst of divorcing when she ordered the hit.

She pleaded guilty to the charges and served one year of her nearly four-year prison sentence.


  Mugshot of Tatyana Remley after pleading guilty to hiring a hitman to off her ex-husband. California DOC Mugshot of Tatyana Remley after pleading guilty to hiring a hitman to off her ex-husband. California DOC

  Remley was known for a lavish lifestyle funded by her husband’s real estate fortune. Facebook/Tatyana Remley Remley was known for a lavish lifestyle funded by her husband’s real estate fortune. Facebook/Tatyana Remley

In another bizarre twist, Tatyana and Mark’s tortured affair apparently continued after she left prison — and they kept seeing each other even after Tatyana was arrested again and charged with arson for allegedly burning down their mansion before the divorce.

Tatyana had been awaiting trial in March before she took her own life.

Tatyana maintained her innocence on the arson charge — as well as in the mysterious death of her friend Sharal, who was with her the day the house fire began, according to a source connected to the couple.

She claimed Mark tried to falsely implicate her in Sharal’s suspected murder.


  The Remleys had attempted to launch several businesses during their marriage. Showtime/ Naked SNCTM The Remleys had attempted to launch several businesses during their marriage. Showtime/ Naked SNCTM

Despite it all, the couple’s relationship continued on an on-again-off-again basis until the day of her death, including reports that the two had fully reconciled, according to the source.

During their 15-year relationship, the pair used Mark’s $30 million real estate fortune to fund a lavish, public lifestyle for themselves and Tatyana’s two children from a previous marriage, according to the Mail.

They spent their time in mansions in California and Hawaii and started several ventures, including an ill-fated horse dancing show at the Del Mar Fairgrounds in 2012, the outlet said.


  Tatyana and Mark at one of the many wild parties they attended together. Felix Gonzales Tatyana and Mark at one of the many wild parties they attended together. Felix Gonzales

  Tatyana Remley launched an ill-fated equestrian dancing show with her husband. Valitar Tatyana Remley launched an ill-fated equestrian dancing show with her husband. Valitar

They reportedly shared a passion for wild, debaucherous sex, and even appeared in the Showtime docuseries “Naked SNCTM,” which went behind the scenes of an exclusive sex club.

If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts or are experiencing a mental health crisis and live in New York City, you can call 1-888-NYC-WELL for free and confidential crisis counseling. If you live outside the five boroughs, you can dial the 24/7 National Suicide Prevention hotline at 988 or go to SuicidePreventionLifeline.org.

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